To stay in a relationship with a man. You know, she might say to herself: he doesn't look at other women, he only looks at me or I know he thinks about me just as much as I think about him, or I know he wants the same things in life that I want. I believe all, that's right, I said all women lie to themselves in order to stay in a relationship with a man. If a woman ever accepted the truth about her man, she would end the relationship immediately.
In that regard, they lie a little.
But in other contexts, they lie colossally, such as when they rationalize illegal, immoral or unfair actos on their part.
I didn't come into this relationship expecting my hubby to be perfdo all women lieect. He isn't. Neither am I. He has flaws; I have flaws. He occasionally does things that tick me off; and I return the favour. I knew that any successful relationship requires work to thrive. So there was no need to lie to myself about him.
As for the rest, I know that he still has eyeballs and that he can't help but notice if another woman is pretty. I can't blame him for that. He's not one to ogle. I know that, for the most part, what we want out of life lines up pretty well. And I know that he loves me, because he shows it. Same as before...no need to lie to myself about him.
A relationship that requires self-deception in order to keep going is not healthy do all women lieand will eventually fail. Do you think that all relationships everywhere are built on lies? that's sad.
I think that people lie to themselves *about themselves* more than anything.
How do you know that all men lie?
I might want to believe the best of my man, but that is because I know he is worthy of my high regard for him. And after 22 years of marriage, I think I might be a better judge of character than you are.
That is how women operate.
Look at how silly the women are in this site.
maybe buts its all about if it can work out and they can accept that u have to give up on some expectations
No, I don't think so.
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